Affirmations for body image
Body image affirmations land better when they're about what your body does rather than how it looks. "I love my body" can feel false in front of a mirror. "My legs carried me through today" is something you can check, and focusing on function improved body image in a randomized trial.1
Choose the one that feels true today. You can save it as an image on your phone.
If saying an affirmation makes you feel worse, let it go. That's common, and a smaller, truer sentence may fit better. If you're thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 in the US, or see crisis resources.
Six affirmations for body image
- "My body carried me through today." It names something your body did, which you can check.
- "My body is not a project I have to finish." For the urge to fix one more thing.
- "I can thank my body for one thing it did today." It turns the line into a small daily check.
- "How I look is one fact about me, and far from the most interesting one." It puts appearance back in its place.
- "I can be kind to my body on days I don't like how it looks." Kindness doesn't wait for approval.
- "Food and movement don't have to be a punishment today." It takes the penalty out of everyday choices.
If you want one where you'll see it, put it on the mirror you use most, or on your lock screen.
More lines for body image
Fourteen more, for the moments body image tends to bite: the mirror, the closet, the plate and the phone.
In front of the mirror
- "I can look, and then get on with my day."
- "Bodies change. Mine is allowed to."
- "The mirror shows a body. I'm the one who adds the grade."
- "I can notice a harsh thought about my body without agreeing with it."
Getting dressed or seeing a photo
- "If the jeans don't fit, the jeans are the problem."
- "A bad photo is one angle on one second."
- "Comfort first today."
Around food and movement
- "I don't have to earn lunch."
- "I can walk because I like the air."
- "Hunger is my body asking, and I'm allowed to answer."
- "I eat today. Yesterday doesn't get a vote."
When you're comparing
- "Their body isn't a target for mine."
- "The bodies I see online are often lit, posed and picked from many shots."
- "My body lives my life. It doesn't have to look like anyone else's."
Focus on what your body does
Researcher Jessica Alleva and her colleagues tested a program called Expand Your Horizon, randomly assigning 81 women with a negative body image to it or to a comparison program. In structured writing assignments, they wrote about what their bodies let them do, rather than how they look.1
Afterward, they were more satisfied with their appearance and with what their bodies could do, appreciated their bodies more, and judged themselves less by how they look from the outside. The effects were small to medium, and the study followed them for one week.1
That's the idea behind lines 1 and 3. They don't ask you to like the mirror, only to notice something it can't show you: the stairs you climbed, the bag you carried, the walk you finished.
- My arms are too big: My arms carried the shopping up three flights of stairs.
- I hate my stomach: My body digested lunch and kept me going all afternoon.
- My legs look awful in shorts: My legs got me through a two-mile walk with my friend.
"I tried on jeans and spiraled. Instead of 'I love my body', which I'd never believe today, I wrote one line: my legs carried me through a ten-hour shift."
Being kind to your body
A second trial tested self-compassion. In it, 228 women listened to three different 20-minute self-compassion meditations over three weeks. Compared with a waitlist group, they had less body dissatisfaction and body shame and more body appreciation, and the gains held three months later.2
Lines 2 and 5 come from that idea. No arguing with the mirror. They change the tone you use with your own body, which is the part you can practice.
What is one thing your body let you do today that you'd miss if you couldn't? Write it in one sentence, then write how you'd like to treat your body tomorrow.
Answer this with JoyWhen it's more than a bad body image day
If thoughts about food, weight or shape take up much of your day, or you're restricting, bingeing or making yourself sick, bring it to a doctor soon, because eating disorders are serious illnesses that can be treated successfully and early treatment matters.3
Affirmations aren't a treatment for an eating disorder.
Questions people ask about affirmations for body image
What are good body positive affirmations?
Ones you can say without arguing. On a hard day, "my body carried me through today" is easier to believe than "I love my body". Positive body image is more than the absence of hating your body; it includes appreciating it and caring for it.4
What is body neutrality?
It's the idea of relating to your body by what it does and how it feels, without needing to love how it looks. The functionality study above is close to that idea, though it measured appearance satisfaction too.1
Can affirmations fix body image?
Not on their own. The trials above tested structured writing about what your body does and a self-compassion practice; neither tested a single line.1,2 Use a line to remind you of the practice on the day you skip it.
Related
- How to write an affirmation you can believe, with the picker for every other situation.
- Affirmations for self-love and affirmations for self-esteem.
- Journal prompts for self-love.